How do I unmatch someone?
Open the conversation, tap Safety and settings and choose Unmatch. You can no longer message each other and disappear from each other’s lists.
Updated 5 November 2026
You can unmatch at any time. It happens straight away and cannot be undone.
How to do it
Open the conversation with the person in Chats.
Tap the Safety and settings icon at the top of the conversation.
Choose Unmatch and confirm.
It works the same way when you use EliteDulce on elitedulce.com.
What happens next
The conversation closes, and you disappear from each other’s lists.
You will not be shown to each other in the deck again.
We do not send the other person a separate message, but the match disappears for them too.
If the person has been abusive, choose Block or Report in the same menu instead, so we can look into it.
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